Maybe. But it's still up to you.
But, the self-infliction came when you decided to accept the relocation. You could have stayed put and found another job.
"Good or bad, babyYou can change it anyway you wantYou can rearrange itEnlightenment, don't know what it isChop that wood and carry waterWhat's the sound of one hand clappingEnlightenment, don't you know what it is..."