Lincoln Station is my preference. You can sit down, decent wings, good crowd but a little more subdued compared to Delilah's. Delilah's on the other hand is quite rowdy, cliquish, standing room only and shoulder to shoulder, no real food opportunities because of that. Making your way to the bathroom and back is a real hassle, but maybe I'm getting old:) They're down the street from each other, you could walk between the 2 and try both out.