I met Ray at a Rutgers game like 3 years ago, he honestly seemed like an awesome guy. A friend of a friend was in my group who played w him at Rutgers so we all talked for a bit and he's a really nice guy, genuinely
I think he just blacked out that night and lost all control , still no excuse for that behavior and he def suffered the consequences but being that they're still together, I imagine that was a 1 time ordeal