I agree. The sad thing is, a lot of guys think it's just not normal or natural to be friends with an attractive woman without ulterior motives. Those are the ones who are the least evolved, IMO.
lol..no kidding
Honestly, I wonder if a part of that is because you're a guy. Guys usually talk with other guys about who they find hot and wanna bang..but they rarely say that same kind of stuff around female friends. I have to think that women are the same way sometimes...only talking about guys around female friends. At the same time, I don't think women are usually as crude or obvious about it for the most part. I have some friends who will see a hot female I'm friends with and not be very good at holding his tongue around me.
I think that's it right there. A lot of guys can't control their hormones and think with their small head way too much. I don't find it that hard to admit that a female friend is smoking hot...but still be able to view her as just a friend. Whether it's simple evolution, maturity, or maybe just a case of not being used to having a lot of hot female friends