I don't know the nature of those "relationships" the Bills have, but I wouldn't say scalping is good or bad, it just IS. It's reality, and I don't know what could possibly be done to change it.
Personally, I don't get season tickets so that I can sell them for profit, but when I can't make it to a game, I'll sell them to whoever I please. On occasion I've even brought friends who are opposing fans. If anyone thinks I'm part of the problem, I'll say again as I've said before, I first bought my seasons while living five states away, in the Chan Gailey era. Even though it was a drop in the ocean, I wanted to do my part to keep the team in Buffalo.
What's also funny to me is that we celebrate our world-class tailgating, but then get pissy when non-Bills fans show up to check it out.