You do not accumulate the amount of wealth Ralph Wilson has without good and trusted financial advisors. Presumably there is some sort of sophisticated estate planning scheme in place to maximize the amount of wealth retained by the family upon his passing. This does not make him uncaring, but prudent.
While we all wish and hope that he has the best interests of our region at heart, at the end of the day, business is business and family is family. I am sure that he is as proud of his business accomplishments as each of us are of our own, but as any good business consultant will tell you, you are your own best client and the one who always should get paid first. To expect any less of him is wishful thinking. After all, would you take anything away from your family to give to me, or any other TSW poster?