The "people don't like her because she's a female," narrative is lazy and weak.
She is a woman who sucks at her job. Key words, "sucks at her job." (not "woman")
Everyone on the PLANET thought Jason Witten sucked in the booth. Why? Because he sucked. I don't recall anyone saying, "you just don't like him because he's a man!"
It's pure crap. She's horrible, period.