My wife was diagnosed with it 6 months after the birth of our 3rd kid (she was 35)...Stage 3...it had spread to her lymph nodes. Her chances were 50-50. She had axillary dissection (removal of nodes in her armpit), lumpectomy, chemo and radiation...is was some pretty scary sh--...that was 10 years ago! And so far...she's fine. Almost like it never happened...she was a real trooper with a great attitude.
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