Last time I'm going to say this, because you keep ignoring it anyway.
The line is, don't harm other people. If you can, you help them.
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I'm not against rules and norms for the sake of being against them. Anyone who is is an idiot. I do, however, think that rules and norms should be questioned, to the following standard: Is this rule protecting people from harm? If so, it's probably a good rule. Otherwise, society should question it, and if appropriate get rid of it. There are lots of places where a rule / norm might harm one person / group and help another. There, judgements have to be made about what is best for everyone. In the case of homosexuality, I have yet to hear anyone make a convincing argument that allowing homosexuals equal rights, standing and respect is harming anyone.