once again, you’re attacking someone for putting up with “the behavior” and not the person actually doing the behavior.
if what we said was true, Darryl Talley is actually the person doing the bad thing here. She’s being attacked for talking about it, putting up with it, speaking her mind. It’s unquestionably messed up.
I will never put talking about someone’s cheating as being on the same level as someone who is doing the cheating. Unquestionably messed up.