‘”If it was me in that situation, I think I would,” Alexander said. “Because you don’t want to have that lingering. You’re always going to have guys like, ‘Eh,’ trying to watch it extra close, tying to confirm it versus you addressing it. Then it’s kind of over. Then open it up. ‘Anybody got any questions for me? If you want me to answer them, I can do it now.’ Or, ‘I can take you to lunch.’ Whatever it may be so that you can really get to know the person I am.”‘