'"I am recognizing we have got to have that controlled emotion, and that aggression and things like that. The bigger the game, the more calm you have to be. I think we have to realize, hey let’s play the game. We want to be as physical a football team as there is in the league. We have always said that, but we want to do it with the confinements of the rules. And I think we have to learn from that and make it to where penalties are in our favor, not the other way. And right now it's hard to play against a good football team and you have to overcome penalties."'