‘”I spent a lot of that time in the first year after Hunter’s diagnosis being angry at Jim,” Jill confided. “I was upset that he wasn’t doing what I was doing, which was spending every moment with Hunter. It wasn’t until later that I realized that guys handle things differently and that Jim was just coping with things in the best way he knew how.” “She sometimes gets mad at me that I don’t cry,” Jim confided. “I grew up in a family of boys where, if you showed emotion, it meant you were weak and it got you a swat on the behind. She has no idea how many times I’ve broken down over Hunter when I’ve been alone.”‘